Siblings love each other, they hit each other, they fight for attention and toys – and they make their parents break out in a sweat. Danielle Graf and Katja Seide show how parents can treat each sibling fairly without losing themselves in the chaos of everyday life. They describe where spaces open up in the coexistence of multiple children that parents can use to foster a close bond with each individual child. They also illuminate how tolerance and familiarity can be fostered and maintained between siblings instead of envy and resentment. Almost all parents know this: there is enough love for each child, but the amount of time and energy does not increase. In this book, parents will find relaxed ways to raise multiple children: supporting the firstborn, creating exclusive time with each child, and guiding conflicts in a relationship-oriented manner. Witty, informative, cheeky, and personal, Danielle Graf and Katja Seide are translators of children's emotions and actions. Based on numerous examples and current scientific findings, they provide parents with a wealth of creative solutions for raising children lovingly and resiliently.