"On the Wings It Depends" is a guide that addresses the essential role of attachment and need-oriented parenting. The author, Herbert Renz-Polster, highlights the importance of providing children with both roots and wings to promote their healthy development. Parents often face the challenge of managing their children's tantrums and lack of cooperation. This guide offers valuable insights and practical approaches to create a need-oriented parenting style that encompasses both freedom and guidance. By fostering independence and social understanding, it supports the positive development of children. The guide is a valuable resource for parents seeking solutions to family conflicts and wanting to empower their children.